Updated: Mar 8
We all have been in a situation where we were dating someone completely wrong for us, yet we stuck around. Why? I can’t even answer that myself. All I know is HALLELUJAH that isn’t the case anymore. Whether we are blinded by infatuation, intrigue, or are just lonely, it’s time to wake up girl and get a move on. If any or all of these 5 signs are relatable to your current situation, ring the alarm like Beyonce and find someone else.
You’re constantly fighting. Disagreeing is natural. You aren’t identical. But if you are always on guard and ready to fight back, this is not the relationship for you.
You don’t share the same long-term goals. If you both are not on the same page about what the future entails, your relationship might be short-lived. You can’t change someone. Keep that in mind.
There is no trust. If you can’t trust your partner or vise-versa, what do you have?
You can’t be yourself. If you feel like you’re constantly wearing a mask, or feel the need to be something you’re not, well it’s all a lie than isn’t it? What’s the point of being with someone if you can’t really BE with them. You need to be able to be yourself, 100%.
Communication skills are lacking. If you feel like your partner doesn’t listen, and mainly does the talking, this will pose as a major issue that will relate back to issue #1. Arguing.
Being single is a far better option than settling or being with someone who you enjoy SOME of the time.